“the inclusivity edit” archives
“The Inclusivity Edit” is a monthly newsletter celebrating body confidence, self-love, and all things disabled representation.
this wasn’t the bridal experience I dreamed of
I’ve spent most of my life noticing how people react to my disability. It’s a sixth sense that most of us with apparent disabilities have developed over time.
The awkwardness. The stares. The polite-but-weird energy that forms when we enter the room.
And when I got engaged, I felt it again.
what to do when the future feels uncertain
Living with a progressive disease means living with uncertainty.
I don’t know exactly when things will get harder or how much my body will change. I just know that it will.
This is the part of having a progressive disease that people don’t talk about enough.
Not just the physical changes, but knowing your future isn’t in your control.
body positive phrases I’m tired of hearing
“Real women have curves.”
“Strong is beautiful.”
“I’d rather be this size than unhealthy.”
“Focus more on what your body does than how it looks.
What do all of these phrases have in common?
They try to uplift one group by stepping on another.
And they are deeply rooted in ableism and body shaming.
my intentions going into 2025
When I think about resolutions for the new year, I’m focusing on intentions instead of goals that add unnecessary pressure. Resolutions don’t have to be about “fixing” yourself — they can be about taking care of yourself.
And let’s be real — so many of us with disabilities or chronic illnesses know that a new year doesn’t magically usher in a fresh, easier life.
body positivity shouldn’t come with a double standard
Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo are starring in one of the most highly anticipated movies of the year. And while there is a lot of excitement in the media and online, there’s also a troubling trend emerging: speculation about their bodies — particularly their weight and health.
This is something I know a little bit about.
curiosity isn’t a free pass
Ah…the good old “I’m just curious.”
That phrase. It’s one that disabled people hear constantly. It’s the excuse people give when they feel entitled to ask about our bodies or disabilities, as if curiosity somehow makes it acceptable. If you’re disabled, you know exactly what I mean.
My latest experience happened at the dentist.
The start of something inclusive
Welcome to the very first-ever edition of The Inclusivity Edit! I’m so excited to have you here :)
A special shoutout to Ali (@seated.perspectives) for helping me make this newsletter happen!
So, why The Inclusivity Edit? Well, coming up with a name for a newsletter is hard. I started my social media under my own name without really thinking abomostly because no one else in the world has my name.) But it doesn’t exactly lend itself to cute or witty puns, does it?